Nourishment

By Emily Olson

Moving through life, I have always been in awe of the natural flow of the world. Everything in our world is connected in little and big ways. What is above, on, and beneath the earth have inter tangled webs that affect one another. Here in central Oregon, we are all very aware of how every rain drop counts. We know that with a lack of rain our lives are negatively impacted, and with the sky nurturing us with rain we can look forward to a smoke-free, flower filled summer. So too is the way that our souls, minds, and body function. In providing nourishment to our souls and minds our bodies flourish and vice versa. I chose to engage in the world of therapy to be a part of supporting the community in feeding their body, mind, and souls. 

The most primary tenet of therapy is thought to be talking to a trusted professional. Although, talking can be hard. Going into a place and divulging things that are buried deep within us is no easy feat. Indeed, it can seem to be downright impossible. It can also be nearly impossible to sit still, especially for children. This is why I became interested in somatic therapy. Somatic therapy stems off of the notion that sometimes primarily talking is not in the cards for those wishing to explore themselves deeply. It allows an avenue where focusing on the body to get to the mind is an effective route. There are many different types of somatic therapy that are evidence-based. I chose to engage in one that spoke to me and I have personally found it beneficial in sorting through the labyrinth of my own mind; this is the trauma conscious yoga method. 

At the core of trauma conscious yoga method (TCYM), it is about noticing what is happening in our bodies when we engage in mindfulness within our bodies through yoga poses. Afterwards, we discuss what comes up for us with a trained clinician. It provides an outlet for individuals to be able to notice sensations that are occurring in our body while actively engaging in stretches that are beneficial for our nervous systems, digestion, and more. As an example, while you are reading this, I invite you to lift one or both arms in the air and notice if there is any sensation standing out to you. While I am doing this, I notice a lengthening sensation in my bicep. This could be similar to what you may be noticing, and it is normal for others to have a completely different experience. In noticing what is happening within your body with movements you are practicing looking within yourself. 

 Diving further into what brought me to TCYM, the traditional practice of yoga stems from a spiritual beginning. TCYM follows the origins of yoga and focuses more on individuals’ experiences rather than emphasizing adherence to specific poses. This encourages engaging in yoga that is beneficial for our minds, souls, and bodies. It is about noticing where it is ok to push yourself and where it is necessary to stop in order to avoid harm, much like what traditional talk therapy emphasizes. I have found that in my own life this has opened up many different opportunities for me to reflect on what I am doing in day to day life as I practice. Engaging in yoga throughout my day allows me to reflect on how I am pushing myself in my practice and how that relates to how I am feeling and acting in other areas. I am able to practice finding the balance in my body and mind in order to sort through the areas of my life where I can lean into the discomfort and the areas where I can find compassion for where I am at and find rest. Finding the balance in my body has become an additional way for me to boost how I am able to find balance in my mental health and overall life. I invite you to reflect on how adding time into your day to look inward, in any form, would benefit your mind, body, and soul. Who knows?  It may be the nourishment you need.

HOW YOUR BELIEFS ABOUT GOD MAY IMPACT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH

Written By Michael Harris, QMHP

One of the cornerstones of treatment that I rely upon and teach my clients is making the connection between the internal messages we give ourselves and the effect these messages have upon our emotions and behaviors.  Practically everyday I invite clients to identify and examine their self-talk (those internal messages) to mitigate the effects of common complaints such as depression and anxiety.  If our self-talk affirms our worth and ability to manage life’s stressors, then we are more likely to have a healthy response to those stressors.  On the other hand, if our self-talk contains a distorted or destructive narrative, then it is much more likely that we will feel and act accordingly. 

 Imagine sitting down for that first cup of coffee in the morning and just as you are placing the cup to your lips, you spill it all over the front of your clothing.  If your self-talk goes something like, “I can’t believe I just did that!  How stupid!  This is going to be an awful day,” then your chances of having a bad day increase dramatically and your mood is probably going to be lousy.  However, if your self-talk sounds like, “How silly of me!  I really love this shirt!  I guess it’s time to change into a different shirt,” then you are probably going to feel temporarily annoyed but you will be able to move past the incident and not set yourself up to have a bad day.  Suffice it to say that our internal dialogue about events, people, and even ourselves goes a long way toward determining how we feel and behave.  In other words, our overall mental health has a lot to do with our internal dialogue.

The Hebrew Scriptures present the concept of the Imago Dei to describe the unique relationship between God and humans.  Imago Dei is a Latin phrase that translates to “image of God” in English.  This theological idea asserts that human beings are created in the image and likeness of God.  While the exact meaning of this construct has been debated for thousands of years, I invite you to consider the implications of it in relation to your self-talk about God and its affect on your mental health. What are the images of God that you believe to be true?  Are those images adding to, or subtracting from, your journey toward mental health?  I propose that the images we maintain regarding God have a direct effect on our emotions, thoughts, and actions. 

Once upon a time I had an image of God that cast God in the role of a critical parent who kept a list of my wrongdoings.  This narrative about God that played in my head often led me to feel inadequate, anxious, and depressed.  These feelings then led me to think quite negatively about myself leading to some times of very low self-esteem and an attitude of judgment toward myself and my fellow humans.  As my faith seasoned and matured, I began to adjust my beliefs about the nature of God, thus affecting my emotions and behaviors.  Rather than viewing God as a critical parent, I now view God as a God of grace and justice who, rather than keeping a list of wrongdoings, uses my shortcomings as teachable moments.  My shortcomings are no longer seen as failures, but opportunities to receive grace as fertilizer for my growth.  Just as a parent will patiently pick up their child a thousand times after they fall while learning to walk, my heavenly Parent has infinite patience with me as I learn to walk with integrity in this life.  This shift in my belief system and self-talk about God has brought freedom and made me a more honest person while greatly reducing the amount of anxiety I have in my relationship with God.  What is your self-talk about God?  How does that self-talk impact your mental health?